A dear friend went to be with Jesus yesterday after a nearly year-long battle with cancer. In thinking about the question many of us have after a loved one dies—“Why didn’t God choose to heal them?”—I wanted to read through this short piece I wrote for Today’s Christian Woman magazine a few years ago. I was surprised that I never posted the full piece on my blog, so here it is. It just touches on my thoughts today, so I hope to soon write more about death and loss.
-------
His Healing Heart
God’s provision of health reveals much about his nurturing character.
-------
His Healing Heart
God’s provision of health reveals much about his nurturing character.
TCW (May/June 2012)
“God doesn’t always heal.”
I think these words are meant
to convey that Christians should seek the will of God, as we don’t know if he’s
allowing illness for some purpose that’s ultimately for the believer’s good. Or
perhaps these words are meant to remind us that we aren’t entitled to blessings
or in any position to demand them from God.
A similar, well-intentioned
statement is: “Our greatest spiritual growth comes through trials.” This is
probably meant to remind us that trials cause us to run to God and may reveal a
complacent heart.
Indeed, these are important lessons
for the believer to reflect on when life is going well. But such statements
may be deeply harmful when made to those who are struggling through an illness
or difficult life circumstances.
That’s because even strong
Christians may be tempted to doubt God’s love at times when they’re overwhelmed
by physical or emotional pain. Hearing “God doesn’t always heal” might cause a
person to focus on the idea that she’s the exception—and then question, Why
doesn’t God want to heal me? Am I less important to God, or less worthy than
others?
In this way, these statements may
paint an ugly picture of God as preferential, or indifferent, or harsh—like a
drill sergeant who uses only extreme methods to whip us into shape, and who
favors the strong.
There’s a truer statement to be made
that reflects God’s love for us: God always heals. Whether it’s through
temporary healing provided in this present life, or in the complete physical
and emotional healing that he will provide in eternity (Revelation 21:4), God heals all wounds.
God’s
Daily Care
Consider how God heals us
physically, in this present life, the vast majority of the time. Think about
all the times you’ve had colds, headaches, back pain, an upset stomach, and
cuts and bruises. These didn’t just go away—each time the illness or pain
passed because God provided healing, both through his design of the body and by
his hand (James 1:17). God’s design of our physical body
tells us something profound about God: He cares so deeply about our pain that
he built in a system of healing.
Further, most of us are relatively
healthy, most of the time. Although it may be easy to recall lengthy or painful
illnesses, it’s impossible for most folks to count the number of days they’ve
been well—there are just too many. This should remind us that God is caring for
us on a daily basis.
I’ve observed a surprising trait among Christians who suffer from
chronic illness or disability: They overflow with joy and demonstrate faith in
a measure that isn’t typically found among the healthy. How is this possible?
Pain certainly isn’t the impetus for rejoicing. This is surely a result of a
felt abundant provision from God.
With this in mind, it seems our greatest spiritual growth isn’t
from a trial itself—it’s not pain that makes us spiritually stronger. Rather,
our growth comes through God’s provision when we’re experiencing trials. When
we witness his love, comfort, and healing, we learn experientially and
relationally about who God is.
Health and healing show us that God is relational, aware of our
needs, and that he’s the provider of every good thing. These blessings testify
to us about God’s character—and remind us that we are known and loved.